Critic or Coach.<\/p>\n
Which one are you listening to?<\/p>\n
It is easy to distinguish between the two \u2013 one leads you towards the life you want and the other leads you away from it.<\/p>\n
The critic will tell you: \u201cI always stuff up\u201d; \u201cNobody loves me\u201d; \u201cI\u2019m worthless\/stupid\/useless\/a failure\u201d; \u201cI\u2019m no good at relationships\/with money\u201d.<\/p>\n
The coach will use words like: \u201cYou can do it!\u201d; \u201cI believe in you\u201d; \u201cYou\u2019ve got what it takes\u201d; \u201cWhat a great start\u201d; \u201cLook how far you have come, now let\u2019s see how far you can go\u201d.<\/p>\n
Athletes choose coaches for their skills and expertise in bringing out their best performance \u2013 they want to improve and win. A great coach encourages and inspires an athlete to strive and achieve \u2013 even when it\u2019s tough – especially when it\u2019s tough.<\/p>\n
If a coach is not serving them, then they find another one who will.<\/p>\n
What\u2019s the quality of your inner coach?<\/p>\n
Is it encouraging and inspiring you \u2013 or is it time for a change?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Critic or Coach. Which one are you listening to? It is easy to distinguish between the two \u2013 one leads you towards the life you want and the other leads you away from it. The critic will tell you: \u201cI always stuff up\u201d; \u201cNobody loves me\u201d; \u201cI\u2019m worthless\/stupid\/useless\/a failure\u201d; \u201cI\u2019m no good at relationships\/with money\u201d. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":436,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-counselling"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/436"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/inspirecounselling.nz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}